Low Self-Esteem Counselling

Low self-esteem can affect how you view yourself, relate to others, and respond to challenges in daily life. People struggling with low self-worth often experience harsh self-criticism, self-doubt, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and thoughts such as “I’m not good enough” or “I always fail.”

These beliefs often develop through past experiences, relationships, criticism, trauma, or emotional invalidation and can contribute to anxiety, depression, stress, and relationship difficulties.

In therapy, we work toward understanding where these patterns developed, challenging negative self-beliefs, and building a healthier and more compassionate relationship with yourself. Over time, you can learn to respond to yourself with greater confidence, self-awareness, and self-acceptance rather than criticism and shame.

Areas of Focus

  • Low self-esteem and self-worth

  • Negative self-talk and self-criticism

  • People-pleasing and approval-seeking

  • Perfectionism and fear of failure

  • Anxiety and depression linked to self-esteem

  • Shame and guilt

  • Difficulty setting boundaries

  • Relationship insecurity and comparison

  • Trauma-related self-esteem issues

Client Populations

I support youth and adults who are:

  • Struggling with chronic self-doubt or insecurity

  • Feeling “not good enough” or stuck in comparison

  • Experiencing difficulty in relationships due to self-worth issues

  • Navigating anxiety, depression, or trauma alongside low self-esteem

  • Looking to build confidence, self-trust, and healthier inner dialogue

I offer in-person counselling in Kelowna, BC, and online counselling and psychotherapy throughout BC and Ontario.